I strongly believe that to feel happy and free,
you have to be yourself. I am sour that you who is reading this, has heard that
many times, trust me I have too. It does
get pretty repetitive and boring, but this is only because it is actually the
truth. When you are yourself you don’t have to pretend you don’t have to try to
keep up with anything you don’t have to think a bit you just follow your own
instincts.
I know from my own experience that it is hard
to be yourself and grow, without pretending and becoming someone you are not.
When everyone tries to change you and you don’t even know what ‘s happening,
even worse, you probably don’t even know who you actually are and you still
have to figure that out.
One of the most important things for me to do
if I do loose myself is to connect with the “old” me. The me from when I was a
childe or the me when something good happened or the me from the time I know
that that was me. Connecting with the people you love friends and family. Spending time with friend you know for a very
long time is such a good thing to do if you feel lost. Family is also a good place
to connect with the old you; I mean they are probably the people that know you
the best.
Lets get back to a reason why we might change
without even noticing. Lets be honest its pretty clear, if we like someone we
do stupid things. One of my friends told me that I have totally changed trying
to get this guys attention. I feel so stupid tbh, but she is right I have
changed so much without noticing. Now I feel like not all changes you undergo
not just by liking someone but in general, not all changes are bad. A lot of
these changes help us to grow and learn.
I could go on about being yourself and how
people, you want and you don’t want, interfere in your own live, but for now
this is it. The most important thing is really just to find your own way to find
yourself.
